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High Functioning Depression in Motherhood

Caitlin Slavens
August 3, 2024

High-Functioning Depression and Maternal Mental Health: The Benefits of Therapy

Imagine juggling a busy schedule—caring for children, managing household duties, and maintaining a job—while feeling a persistent cloud of sadness and exhaustion hanging over you. You’re outwardly managing well, but inside, you’re struggling. This is the reality for many individuals experiencing high-functioning depression. It’s a form of depression where one maintains daily responsibilities while silently battling inner turmoil. For mothers, this struggle is particularly challenging, as they face the dual pressures of societal expectations and personal guilt. Understanding high-functioning depression and exploring therapeutic options can provide crucial support for those navigating these complex feelings.

Understanding High-Functioning Depression in Maternal Mental Health

High-functioning depression, also known as persistent depressive disorder (PDD), is characterized by chronic low mood, low self-esteem, and persistent feelings of inadequacy. Unlike major depressive disorder, where symptoms can be more severe and disruptive, high-functioning depression often allows individuals to continue their daily routines and responsibilities.

For mothers, this form of depression can be especially insidious. Societal expectations often pressure mothers to appear as if they have it all together, which can lead to internalized guilt and shame when they don’t feel as joyful or competent as they think they should. This silent struggle can significantly impact their parenting, from affecting their ability to bond with their children to creating strain in family dynamics. The constant need to meet external expectations while feeling internally overwhelmed can create a difficult cycle of stress and self-doubt.

The Benefits of Therapy for High-Functioning Depression in Mothers

Therapeutic Support:

Therapy offers a valuable, non-judgmental space where mothers can openly discuss their feelings, including the challenges of motherhood. It’s a chance to explore their experiences and emotions with a trained professional who can offer understanding and support. Therapy provides an opportunity to address the unique aspects of maternal mental health, such as the pressure to maintain a perfect facade and the struggles of balancing multiple roles.

Coping Strategies and Skills:

Therapists use various techniques to help manage high-functioning depression, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). CBT helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to their feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth. For mothers, therapy can also focus on practical coping strategies tailored to their busy lives, helping them integrate self-care routines and stress management techniques into their daily schedules.

Addressing Underlying Issues:

High-functioning depression often has deeper roots, such as unresolved trauma, postpartum challenges, or shifts in identity following major life changes like becoming a parent. Therapy can provide a comprehensive approach to addressing these underlying issues, allowing mothers to gain insights into their mental health and work through complex emotions related to their roles as parents.

The Advantages of Online Therapy for Mothers

Convenience and Accessibility:

Online therapy is an excellent option for mothers who may find it challenging to leave the house for traditional appointments. With flexible scheduling, online therapy allows for sessions at times that fit around children’s needs and other responsibilities. This flexibility is especially beneficial for those with demanding schedules or limited time for self-care.

Comfort and Privacy:

Attending therapy from home can provide a sense of comfort and privacy, reducing the anxiety that might come with visiting a physical office. For many mothers, the ability to have a session in a familiar environment, without the need for childcare arrangements, can make the process of seeking help more accessible and less stressful.

Diverse Communication Options:

Online therapy offers various communication methods, including video calls, phone calls, or text-based sessions. This range of options allows mothers to choose the format that best suits their preferences and comfort levels, making it easier to fit therapy into their busy lives.

Taking the First Step Towards Healing

Recognizing and addressing high-functioning depression is a crucial step towards improving mental health and overall well-being. For mothers, it’s especially important to prioritize their mental health and seek support, despite the pressures to appear perfect. Therapy is a brave and positive step that can lead to meaningful change and healing.

At Couples to Cradles Counselling, we understand the unique challenges of high-functioning depression, particularly for mothers navigating the demands of parenting and daily life. Our compassionate team offers specialized care for maternal mental health, including individual therapy, couples counselling, and parenting support. With online therapy options available, we’re dedicated to making mental health care both accessible and convenient.

If you’re struggling with high-functioning depression or simply need support, consider reaching out to us. Taking that first step towards therapy can be the beginning of a brighter, more fulfilling journey. You don’t have to go through this alone—help is available, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

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